Advocate
July 2019Aberdeen Homeowners Association

“Raising children is an uncertain thing; success is reached only after a life of battle and worry.”
― Democritus
Thank you, Aberdeen Moms
Recently, I was showing homes to a client who happens to be a single woman. We were discussing the homes we'd seen that day and her preference for the bedrooms to be a little separated. I anecdotally mentioned that I was very sad when we moved into our master-on-main home because I knew that my then two year-old would never be crawling into bed with us in the middle of the night again. "Not me", she said. "When I have kids, I want their bedroom to be as far away from mine as possible". I just smiled and said, "Everything changes when you become a mom."
And by everything, I mean every little thing. But perhaps nothing like the ability to worry. Here is this new person, and all you want to do is protect them from pain and harm, just like your mother wanted to protect you. When I became a mother, not only did it bring about changes in my way of life and in my thinking, but it also brought about a new understanding and appreciation for my own mother and the worrying she must have done. Lord, how did she stand to let me go to overnight camp? Or drive away for the first time with a new license? Or backpack through Europe alone? She must have been wrought with fear, and myself, not a care in the world. I just wonder how many times I broke her heart? Now that I'm a mom I know the answer.
A million, little, times.
As I'm writing this, it is nearing the end of May. Mother's Day has passed and Graduation parties are in full swing to celebrate the accomplishment of Aberdeen seniors making it through high school. They'll soon be off to college or some other endeavor that will inevitably put them further than a few feet down the hall. I feel for these mothers of our seniors. These amazing warriors that have battled through the worry and fear to raise some pretty great humans (and I can speak from experience because I've trusted a few of these great humans to babysit my kids and furbabies). Thank you, Aberdeen Moms, for showing me that it can be done and that the worry will be worth it.
-Megan Waite
Congratulations to Robin Sterling of 5160 Dorset Lane for winning House of the Month for June 2019! She is the winner of a $25 Visa gift card and will now be entered into a drawing for a $100 gift card to be given out at the Aberdeen Annual Meeting! Will you be the next to win?
House of the Month is selected by the Aberdeen Architectural Control Committee (or ACC). All association members who's home and yard stand out as being consistently well-maintained, conform to Design Standards, and have no current violations, fines or other issues with their account will be considered.
-Aberdeen ACC
Johns Creek
Grand-Opening
May 30, 2019, the Johns Creek Chick-fil-A re-opened to the joy and delight of local chicken nugget lovers, Lilah and J.P. Waite. They were equally as excited to run in to their babysitter and fellow Aberdeen resident, Lily Pendleton, who provided us with great service and a smile, naturally.
-Megan Waite
Congrats Grads!
LED
Stop Sign
Initiative
Fundraiser
Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning
By Mario Vittone
The new captain jumped from the deck, fully dressed, and sprinted through the water. A former lifeguard, he kept his eyes on his victim as he headed straight for the couple swimming between their anchored sportfisher and the beach. “I think he thinks you’re drowning,” the husband said to his wife. They had been splashing each other and she had screamed but now they were just standing, neck-deep on the sand bar. “We’re fine; what is he doing?” she asked, a little annoyed. “We’re fine!” the husband yelled, waving him off, but his captain kept swimming hard. ”Move!” he barked as he sprinted between the stunned owners. Directly behind them, not 10 feet away, their 9-year-old daughter was drowning. Safely above the surface in the arms of the captain, she burst into tears, “Daddy!”
How did this captain know—from 50 feet away—what the father couldn’t recognize from just 10? Drowning is not the violent, splashing call for help that most people expect. The captain was trained to recognize drowning by experts and years of experience. The father, on the other hand, had learned what drowning looks like by watching television. If you spend time on or near the water (hint: that’s all of us) then you should make sure that you and your crew know what to look for whenever people enter the water. Until she cried a tearful, “Daddy,” she hadn’t made a sound. As a former Coast Guard rescue swimmer, I wasn’t surprised at all by this story. Drowning is almost always a deceptively quiet event. The waving, splashing, and yelling that dramatic conditioning (television) prepares us to look for is rarely seen in real life.
The Instinctive Drowning Response—so named by Francesco A. Pia, Ph.D., is what people do to avoid actual or perceived suffocation in the water. And it does not look like most people expect. There is very little splashing, no waving, and no yelling or calls for help of any kind. To get an idea of just how quiet and undramatic from the surface drowning can be, consider this: It is the No. 2 cause of accidental death in children, ages 15 and under (just behind vehicle accidents)—of the approximately 750 children who will drown next year, about 375 of them will do so within 25 yards of a parent or other adult. According to the CDC, in 10 percent of those drownings, the adult will actually watch the child do it, having no idea it is happening. Drowning does not look like drowning—Dr. Pia, in an article in the Coast Guard’s On Scene magazine, described the Instinctive Drowning Response like this:
“Except in rare circumstances, drowning people are physiologically unable to call out for help. The respiratory system was designed for breathing. Speech is the secondary or overlaid function. Breathing must be fulfilled before speech occurs.
Drowning people’s mouths alternately sink below and reappear above the surface of the water. The mouths of drowning people are not above the surface of the water long enough for them to exhale, inhale, and call out for help. When the drowning people’s mouths are above the surface, they exhale and inhale quickly as their mouths start to sink below the surface of the water.
Drowning people cannot wave for help. Nature instinctively forces them to extend their arms laterally and press down on the water’s surface. Pressing down on the surface of the water permits drowning people to leverage their bodies so they can lift their mouths out of the water to breathe.
Throughout the Instinctive Drowning Response, drowning people cannot voluntarily control their arm movements. Physiologically, drowning people who are struggling on the surface of the water cannot stop drowning and perform voluntary movements such as waving for help, moving toward a rescuer, or reaching out for a piece of rescue equipment.
From beginning to end of the Instinctive Drowning Response people’s bodies remain upright in the water, with no evidence of a supporting kick. Unless rescued by a trained lifeguard, these drowning people can only struggle on the surface of the water from 20 to 60 seconds before submersion occurs.”
This doesn’t mean that a person that is yelling for help and thrashing isn’t in real trouble—they are experiencing aquatic distress. Not always present before the Instinctive Drowning Response, aquatic distress doesn’t last long—but unlike true drowning, these victims can still assist in their own rescue. They can grab lifelines, throw rings, etc.
Look for these other signs of drowning when persons are in the water:
Head low in the water, mouth at water level
Head tilted back with mouth open
Eyes glassy and empty, unable to focus
Eyes closed
Hair over forehead or eyes
Not using legs—vertical
Hyperventilating or gasping
Trying to swim in a particular direction but not making headway
Trying to roll over on the back
Appear to be climbing an invisible ladder
So if a crew member falls overboard and everything looks OK—don’t be too sure. Sometimes the most common indication that someone is drowning is that they don’t look like they’re drowning. They may just look like they are treading water and looking up at the deck. One way to be sure? Ask them, “Are you all right?” If they can answer at all—they probably are. If they return a blank stare, you may have less than 30 seconds to get to them. And parents—children playing in the water make noise. When they get quiet, you get to them and find out why.
Happy 4th of July!
Aberdeen celebrated Independence Day at the pool with smash burgers and hotdogs! By all accounts, the food was delicious, and a good time was had by young and old alike. Thank you Grill's Night Out for cooking up some yummy food, the board of directors for planning, and to all the many volunteers who came together to make this community event possible! Also, a big thanks to Tam's Backstage for providing all of the ice for the event, free of charge!
Welcome to Grill’s Night Out!
We are a few Aberdeen residents getting together monthly for one common goal and that is to prepare something we've never cooked before while having a great time around our ceramic grills!
We all found ourselves grilling/smoking the same things over and over so we agreed on some simple guidelines. Each month we challenge the host with a requirement to cook something that they have never attempted. We rotate the host location every month. The host supplies the main dish and the rest of the group provides everything else. This includes side dishes, desserts, new cocktails, new wines and craft beers.
Most meals have been a surprising success. Some have been more of a success than others, but our group’s mantra is always, “if all else fails, a pizza is one phone call away!”
For photos and recipes you can check us out on our Grill’s Night Out Facebook page.
-Bob Kapelski
Kindergarten:Networking Event
Do you have a rising Sharon Kindergartener? Want your Kindergartener to meet other rising Kindergarteners and begin the lifelong pursuit of awkward networking? Enjoy standing around outside in July in the Georgia heat? Come meet up at the Aberdeen playground on Saturday, July 20 from 10 am until noon. I will have popsicles for the Kindergarteners and they can meet some new friends before Kindergarten Round Up on July 23.
-Elizabeth Strada
Please continue to lift-up our Glencree neighbor, Holden Ludwig, and his family!
Book Club
Aberdeen Book Club welcomes all Aberdeen residents!
Our summer reads are
July- Everyone’s Son
by Thrify Umrigar
August- A Gentleman in Moscow
by Amor Towles
We meet the 3rd Monday of every month at the club house at 7pm for book discussion, food and laughter. Contact Debbie Mervich at dmervich@gmail.com
for more information.
-Debbie Mervich
Tennis News
Fellow Aberdeen residents, thank you for your patience as our new Pavilion nears completion! The contractor, Phoenix Contracting, estimates completion by July 15 weather permitting. Please note that until complete, the site remains a construction site; please do not access. The Pavilion roofed area and deck have been doubled in size with a new bar area with 24 possible seats, 2 new tables, 4 new ceiling fans and WiFi capability. The Tennis Committee is planning to schedule a neighborhood Grand Opening in late July or early August. We'd like to thank the previous and current Aberdeen Board and residents for your support throughout this process. We look forward to seeing you at the Grand Opening!
- Wendy BarkerTennis Committee
Board of Directors:
Announcements
RAISING AWARENESS
Animal Control
I think most of us are tolerant of the occasional escaped dog, somebody leaves the gate or door open and off goes the dog. It happens. What the ordinance addresses is the deliberate and repetitive act of failing to control an animal. Section 14-31 is pretty clear:
“It shall be the duty of the owner of any animal or anyone having an animal in his possession to keep the animal under control at all times while the animal is off the real property limits of the owner, possessor or custodian. For the purposes of this section, an animal is deemed under control when it is confined within a vehicle; is secured by a leash or other device held by a competent person; is under voice control; or is properly confined within an enclosure with permission of the owner of the property where the enclosure is located.” Be careful in thinking your animal is under voice control…if your dog will not stay on command when a cat runs right in front of him or her, it’s not under voice control.
A few more things… “Every animal shall be restrained or controlled so as to prevent it from chasing vehicles or attacking persons or other domestic animals. The owner or custodian of any animal that is proven to be at large shall be in violation of this section, regardless of the precautions taken to prevent the escape of the animal and regardless of lack of knowledge of the offense at the time it occurs. Any such animal at large may be impounded by the animal control officer or an authorized representative thereof.”
Lastly, Forsyth County has addressed tethering 3 times in the last decade or so; here is the current law about that: “It shall be the duty of every owner of any animal to ensure that it is confined by way of a fence, restraint, or other enclosure including activated invisible fence or in some other physical manner under the control of a competent person so that it cannot wander off the real property limits of the owner, it being the intent of this article that all animals be prevented from leaving, while unattended, the real property limits of their owners. The above requirement notwithstanding, it shall beunlawful for the owner of any dog to utilize a tether, chain, cable, rope, or cordas the primary method of restraining a dog, it being the intent of this section that tethering a dog shall be used only as a temporary restraint mechanism.In no event shall a dog be restrained by a tether, chain, cable, rope, or cordwhen the dog is not in the physical presence of and attended by the owner or adult custodian”. This is clear – no unattended tethering! Dogs develop a territorial disposition when tethered that can lead to unfortunate encounters if someone enters into the circumference of the dog’s tethered area.
Yard Waste, Clippings
Forsyth County’s Municode clearly mandates how yard trimmings are to be handled and disposed of:
“No person may dispose of yard trimmings in the county nor dispose of yard trimmings generated in the county unless such disposal is carried out in accordance with section 70-37.
Leaving cut grass on your own yard is OK: “Yard trimmings shall be sorted and stored for collection in a manner that facilitates collection, composting, or other lawful handling.”, but otherwise, “Yard trimmings shall be placed in separate bags or containers. Such bags or containers may include reusable receptacles provided by residents which meet the requirements of this part, watertight paper bags manufactured for yard trimming disposal which, when full, do not exceed 50 pounds in weight, or special containers provided by a solid waste collector, but may not include plastic bags. Notwithstanding the foregoing provisions of this subsection, tree branches, tree trunks, and heavy brush which cannot be containerized and do not exceed four feet in length or six inches in diameter may be neatly stacked. No further preparation shall be required.”
So no, it is against county code to blow yard trimmings into the street or into a storm sewer opening. Please don’t do it and don’t let your yard service do it.
Solicitors
It’s the season for the drive-by window replacement guys to inform you that your house has been selected to become a showplace on your street if you will allow your windows to be replaced at wholesale cost! Who can resist?
Aberdeen is a signed “No Soliciting” community…but read on. Let’s be clear on what is not soliciting. Per Article IV “The term solicitor or canvasser shall not mean an individual or field sales representative working for or on behalf of a bona fide charitable or nonprofit organization, or students or parents of students (i.e., PTA, booster club organizations) participating in approved school-sponsored fund raisers.” In addition, certain other activities such as census taking, religious activity and political activity may not be considered soliciting. So yes, our kids can still sell cookies and firewood and hit you up for donations in support of this or that.
In the past, our entire subdivision was considered to be signed as “No Soliciting”. A recent change in the interpretation of soliciting rules conveys that such a sign does not preclude a solicitor from soliciting individual homes; each residence must have a “No Soliciting” sign.
Unfortunately, Aberdeen’s sign rules prohibit signs of this nature but the ACC does have the ability, without Board or Member concurrence, to allow such a sign at each residence choosing to have one. The ACC is working on this and any change will be communicated to the community.
The Sheriff’s office, through our assigned deputy, has instructed us to do the following if there is soliciting occurring.
1. Get a physical description of the person and any vehicle.
2. Determine in what direction they are going if possible.
3. Don’t answer the door, or if you do, don’t say “I’m calling the Sheriff”.
4. Do call 770.781-3087 and report the solicitor. You will be asked if you want to meet the deputy and answer accordingly.
Parking on the Street
As we head into swim team season with daily practices and 3 exciting home swim meets (date, date, date), it is important that we observe State Law and common sense safety protocols. In Section 78-1 of its Municode, Forsyth County has adopted that portion of the State Law known as the Uniform Rules of the Road,O.C.G.A. §§ 40-6-372 through 40-6-376, O.C.G.A. §§ 40-6-1 through 40-6-397, and it applies to the streets in Aberdeen. Here are some of the rules on parking in a residential area,emphasis added.
“Outside of a business or residential district,no person shall stop, park, or leave standing any vehicle, whether attended or unattended, upon the roadwaywhen it is practicable to stop, park, or so leave such vehicle off the roadway; but in every event, an unobstructed width of the highway opposite a standing vehicle shall be left for the free passage of other vehicles, anda clear view of the stopped vehicle shall be available from a distance of 200 feet in each direction upon the highway.”
“Except as otherwise provided in this Code section, every vehicle stopped or parked upon a two-way roadwayshall be stopped or parked with the right-hand wheels parallel to and within 12 inches of the right-hand curb or as close as practicable to the right edge of the right-hand shoulder.”
“no person shall:
(1) Stop, stand, or park a vehicle:
(A) On the roadway side of any vehicle stopped or parked at the edge of a curb of a street;
(B) On a sidewalk;
(C) Within an intersection;
(D) On a crosswalk;
(2) Stand or park a vehicle, whether occupied or not, except momentarily to pick up or discharge a passenger or passengers:
(A) In front of a public or private driveway;
(B) Within 15 feet of a fire hydrant;
(C) Within 20 feet of a crosswalk at an intersection;
(D) Within 30 feet upon the approach to any flashing signal, stop sign, yield sign, or traffic-control signal located at the side of a roadway”
And for those walking, please be aware of this: “Every pedestrian crossing a roadway at any pointother than within a marked crosswalk or within an unmarked crosswalk at an intersectionshall yield the right of way to all vehicles upon the roadway unless he has already, and under safe conditions, entered the roadway.”
The four issues above are generally not able to be enforced by our Design Standard rules or our Architectural Control Committee, and therefore must be enforced by either Forsyth County Code Enforcement or the Sherriff’s deputies. Directors, ACC members and others have a duty to initiate enforcement of these rules.
-Charlie Smith
Social Butterflies Still Needed
Are you a Social Butterfly, Decorating Diva or Persistent Planner? Aberdeen Social Committee Chair and other members needed. Without these positions being filled, much loved events like the Aberdeen Egg Hunt, Cookies with Santa, and others simply can't and won't happen. Please email the board with interest at directors.abd@gmail.com
Congratulations to our Aberdeen Breakers on another great season! We finished the regular season 3-2, earning a third place trophy in our division and winning the third place trophy in the Forsyth County Championships. Huge thanks to our coaches and swimmers, and parent volunteers for making the season fun and succesful! We are super proud of the kids for all of their hard work and dedication this season.
A special thank you to our neighbors for your support and patience!
Go Breakers!
- Jen Matthews,
Swim Team Manager
Website
Navigation
Did you know that Aberdeen has a website? Our website is www.aberdeencommunity.org. On it you can make updates to how you receive community notifications, reserve the clubhouse, view facility use guidelines, download Property Modification Requests, and much more. If you are new to the neighborhood and do not yet have a login, you can request one directly from the website!
Notification Updates:
Once you logon to site, go to MY PROFILE tab at the top of the page and click. On this screen you'll see EDIT PERSON- [Your Name]. Below it will be four tabs. Click on SUBSCRIPTIONS tab. Make updates as needed.
Reserve the Clubhouse:
Once you logon to site, go to ACTIVITIES tab at the top of the page. A drop down will appear and you'll select EVENTS CALENDAR to verify the date you want is available. When you've confirmed the date, return to ACTIVITIES tab and select RESERVATIONS. Fill out reservation form and SUBMIT. Clubhouse manager will confirm your reservation.
Facility Use Guidelines:
Once you logon to site, go to ACTIVITIES tab at the top of the page. A drop down will appear and you'll select AMENITIES. To the right of the page you'll find a list of the amenities. Click on the amenity you are looking for information on.
Property Modification Request:
Once you logon to the site, go to RESOURCES tab. A drop down menu will appear. Select DOCUMENTS. On the right side of the DOCUMENTS page will be another drop down box titled CHOOSE A CATEGORY. Select ARCHITECTURAL CONTROL COMMITTEE. Click on "PMR, with online fields, preferred version".
Login Request: Go to www.aberdeencommunity.org . Click on the EFORMS tab at the top of the page. In the middle of the page there will be a box titled EFORMS. Click on "Login Request Form". Fillout request form and SUBMIT. If you do not recieve a login within a few days, email the board at directors.abd@gmail.com
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- Megan Waite
to M.O.E.S!
No, Aberdeen did not just get a new burrito joint. What we want to welcome you to is Moms of Elementary Schoolers of Aberdeen! M.O.E.S. of Aberdeen is a neighborhood group designed to connect moms in our community through meetups, playdates, and more. We look forward to getting to know you all better!
-Tara Garcia and Megan Waite